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Dating Advice from “Hi” to “I Do”

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Dating can be very confusing, especially if you’re new to it.  As a psychologist and dating coach, a dating expert and an author who has written six dating and relationship books, I feel like I’ve been asked every conceivable dating question.

What follows is much of my dating advice.

I’ve divided this dating compendium into 8 major sections:  Your Dating Context, First Date Anxiety, Important Dating Considerations, How to Get a Date, Advice for Your Actual Dates, A Few Readers Questions, Advice for Longer-Term Relationships and Dating Advice for the Successful Career Woman.

This is not a traditional how-to book that guides you in a step-by step process from meeting someone to how to get married.  Rather, it addresses a variety of dating issues that confuse singles and by addressing these issues it helps singles navigate the dating process from an initial meeting with someone to longer relationship concerns.

Some Dating topics include:

  • Your dating attitude
  • How to deal with Break-ups
  • Reuniting with an ex
  • Where to meet someone new
  • Making a dating action plan
  • Dealing with rejection
  • Volume dating
  • Where to date over 40
  • Common dating mistakes
  • How to deal with dating anxiety
  • How to have uncomfortable dating conversations
  • Long-distance dating

And so much more! Enjoy.


This ebook will be available soon.  It will also be available in a print version on Amazon soon, in case you want a hard copy to keep.

Dr. Paulette Kouffman Sherman is a Licensed Psychologist who specializes in dating and relationship issues.  She is the author of Dating From the Inside Out published by Atria Books and When Mars Women Date: How Career Women Can Love Themselves into the Relationship of Their Dreams. She’s the Director of My Dating School in New York City and has been a frequent speaker at The Learning Annex. Dr. Sherman writes a column as the NY Love Examiner, and has been an expert on the CBS Early Show, the AM Northwest Early Show and the Curtis Sliwa show on 77WABC. She has been quoted as a relationship expert or interviewed in over 30 outlets such as, USA Weekend, the NY Post, Crains, Newsweek,, More,,, FoxBusiness, Better Homes & Gardens, Reader’s Digest, Redbook, Glamour, Forbes, Woman’s Day, Metro newspapers, Men’s Health, True Story, Seventeen and Complete Woman magazines, JMag, The Huffington Post and The New York Times.  She works as a therapist in Manhattan and lives in Brooklyn.